怎样与人沟通 How to Communicate With Others

Communication is common and important in our daily life. All of us live with others in the society and no one can live cut off from it. Everyday, we must talk to others to give and get information, but how can we communicate with others? Some people claim that they don’t know what to say and how to speak to others, strangers especially. I think first you should find a topic that both of you are interested in. Then, pay attention to your manners, speed, pitch, expressions and your body language. You should make others feel comfortable, so that they are willing to talk to you. Last but not the least, being a good listener. Listening to others shows your respect to them. Only when they heard, they want to talk. So do you. Before you talk, listening to others first. 沟通在我们的日常生活中很普遍也很重要。所有的人都要和社会里的其他人共同生活，没有人能够离开沟通而生活。我们每天都要通过和别人交谈来给予和获取信息，但是我们怎样才能与别人进行沟通呢?有的人声称不知道说什么和怎样和别人说话，尤其是对陌生人。我认为首先应该找一个你们都感兴趣的话题。然后，注意你说话的方式，语速，音调，表情和肢体语言。你应该要让别人感觉舒服，这样他们才会愿意和你交谈。最后同样重要的一点是你要做一个好的倾听者。倾听他人能够显示出你对他们的尊敬。只有当他们被倾听的时候，他们才想要交谈。你也一样。在你交谈之前，先倾听他人。