I said, "We are a happy family whether we are rich or poor.

去年我的父亲失去了他的工作。当时我的父母感到一点悲伤。我对父亲说我已经长大了，可以做一些事来帮助我们这个家。为了帮助我的父母，我在我家附近的肯德基在周末兼职工作。
幸运的是，我的父亲在一家公司找到一份新工作，这没有花很长的时间。我用工作挣来的钱买给我父亲一双新鞋子来庆祝这个好消息。我的父母都被深深的感动了。
我说，“我们是一个幸福的家庭，不管我们是富有还是贫穷。

Little happiness 小小的快乐

　　Why am I so unlucky? Why things are always getting worse? Why God never favor me? Every time when I hear things like these, I just keep silent, for we couldn t get anything in complain, and then I learn to be appreciated.

　　One day I stayed in a condition where I just felt nervous or worse, be mad. I only looked forward to finding a hole and hided myself. Maybe I am too fragile ,easy to be hurt .When I stayed in a corner and was so scared, a friend of mine came to me ,and said : In this world, nothing can daunt us, in addition to our own. Anyway, I will stand by you. I just cried but didn t realize how it would influence me in the future.

　　We always complain blindly, not knowing much happiness flows. There are many things we couldn t predict, and we don t know how tomorrow will be. However, cherish what you have now and things would be better.

我为什么这么倒霉？为什么事情总是变得更糟？上帝为什么不喜欢我？每次当我听到这样的事情，我只是保持沉默，因为我们不能得到任何抱怨，然后我学会感激。
有一天，我呆在一个条件，我就感到紧张，或者更糟，是疯了。我只期待找到一个孔和隐藏自己。也许是我太脆弱，容易受伤。当我呆在一个角落里，很害怕，我的一个朋友来找我，说：在这个世界上，没有什么能难倒我们，除了我们自己。不管怎样，我会支持你的。我只是哭，但没有意识到它会如何影响我的未来。
我们总是抱怨盲目，不知道多少幸福的流动。有很多事情我们无法预测，我们不知道明天会如何。然而，珍惜你现在所拥有的一切会更好。

Maintains the joyful mood 保持快乐的心境

　　A Zen master love orchids, preaching in the spread of more than usual, the heart of time costs a lot of growing orchids. One day, he has to travel far and wide, to go out for some time, confessed disciples prior to his departure: to take good care of the orchids temple.

　　In the meantime, the disciples were always careful to take care of orchids, but when one day in the water will not care Orchid aircraft, and all are missing the blue flower broken, orchids scattered all over the floor. Disciples were very much fear so, it is intended, such as the master came back to apologize from the master punishment.

　　Zen Master returned, heard the matter known, they called his disciples, are not to blame, but said: "I orchid species, one is to be used to worship Buddha, the temple to beautify the environment in order not to anger the orchid species The. "

　　Zen master says: "not for the angry and the types of orchids." The reason why the Zen attitude is that while he likes orchids, but orchids this not mind. Therefore, the success or failure of orchid does not affect the his mind.

　　In their daily lives, we are concerned about too much, we are too concerned about gains and losses, our emotional ups and downs, we are not happy. At a time when angry, if we can think of: "I am not angry but in order to work." "I am angry and not to teach." "I am not angry but to make friends."

　　Remember a word: angry is to punish their own fault of others. Not worth it. Friends: one is willing to keep you forever young and happy state of mind.


　　有一位禅师非常喜爱兰花，在平日弘法讲经之余，心费了许多的时间栽种兰花。有一天，他要外出云游一段时间，临行前交待弟子：要好好照顾寺里的兰花。

　　在这段期间，弟子们总是细心照顾兰花，但有一天在浇水时却不小心将兰花架碰倒了，所有的兰花盆都失碎了，兰花散了满地。弟子们都因此非常恐慌，打算等师父回来后，向师父赔罪领罚。

　　禅师回来了，闻知此事，便召集弟子们，不但没有责怪，反而说道：“我种兰花，一来是希望用来供佛，二来也是为了美化寺里环境，不是为了生气而种兰花的。”

　　禅师说得好：“不是为了生气而种兰花的。”而禅师之所以看得开，是因为他虽然喜欢兰花，但心中却无兰花这个挂碍。因此，兰花的得失，并不影响他心中的喜怒。

　　在日常生活中，我们牵挂得太多，我们太在意得失，所以我们的情绪起伏，我们不快乐。在生气之际，我们如能多想想：“我不是为了生气而工作的。”“我不是为了生气而教书的。”“我不是为了生气而交朋友的。”

　　记住一句话：生气是用别人的过错惩罚自己。不值得。朋友们：愿你们永远保持一颗年轻快乐的心境。

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